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I made mention about Christine Pembleton's book "Lord, I'm Ready to be a Wife" last night, but now she has a sale where you can buy one and get another free but the sale is only for a limited time until January 7th. so, go to www.christinepembleton.com and check it out for yourself. Waiting for my Tonya TKO order and Glenda's book is on the money. Get her book too $16.95 with free shipping which ends today. after that, you pay the price of the book and shipping as well. Since I'm referring to deals on getting a man, getting married, let me say a few words on this subject.
Just recently, I was working on a job with the Salvation Army raising money for Christmas, and on the way back from picking us up from our locations, this one girl begged the driver to listen to this particular song, which I found out that my youngest just loves, and in the song, the woman, the girl says "and it kills me to know how much I really love you, so much I wanna oh oh oh" well I got the name of the woman but forgot and I took it to Facebook and two ladies there was kind enough to let me know and I went to You Tube and I found it. Anyway, Melanie Fiona's "It Kills Me" which is a hit with the young ladies and myself grudgingly and I say grudgingly because although the song sounds so good and all, let me say this. It might hurt you inside to tell a man look this ain't working out and I won't tolerate but honey, it won't kill you unless you let it. Trust me, I know what I'm talking about. My ex was an SOB, and caused me a lot of pain. My mother likes to remind me of it and she acts like it happened to her more than me but that's another story. Another man might hurt you, devastate you but hon, he can't kill you. Believe me, I'm a living witness; It will hurt, and it might seems like it's killing your insides and parts of you, but you AIN'T DEAD!!! you can move on. you can learn from it and you can love someone else who loves you for you. After my marriage went south, I didn't deal with men much after that. Some would come and I'd kick them to the curb because I feel it isn't worth my time. I got a couple of guys not far from me that approach me and I've said NO because I know it ain't nothing but drama and we have nothing in common. But hon, if you keep looking, you don't have to have what you had before. You can have better. To me, that song is misleading to these young women. Now young girls think it's the thing to have someone and most of these young men got some twisted ideas in their heads. They cheat on them, they beat and hit them, they torture them; some even kill them. I know of two situations that come to mind and the young ladies in question were killed by the one they loved. One got burned up so bad because she broke up with the boy; he was a QB for one of our local high schools and now he's in prison for the rest of his life. Another girl just got buried when while trying to run from her boyfriend, he found her, killed her and now five kids are without parents because he can't do much from a cell. What can he tell his kids?
Ladies, you can love a song but be realistic with it. ain't nothing killing you but a bullet or sickness. And if you want someone, get with someone that can be good for you and your family. And if you want my opinion, ask God for guidance and listen to what he says. You be blessed and hit 2010 with some smarts. Be blessed and be safe.