Tiger Woods and Other Musings

To be honest, I don't think that life will ever get so hum drum when others lives are out there to examine; Lately, the biggest thing going on now is the Tiger Woods situation. Now mind you, when the whole thing started, I figured, well a man going out in the middle of the night, the wife notices something amiss, she saves him, end of story. But when neither parties kept stalling to speak with law enforcement, I noticed something was definitely amiss here. Then when he made the initial statement of not being "perfect", I am like, are you serious? not this young fella who embraced all his ethnicities, then married a woman of Scandinavian decent, and got two lovely children with her. You out there with bottom basement, cave dwelling chicks looking for their ships to come in the form of this brilliant golfer looking for a certain itch? aww.... something is not right with this picture.
But then again, let me go on record to say this. Ellie Woods must have been listening to Jazmine Sullivan's "Bust Your Windows" cause she sure knew what to do the other night. Sadly, it caused outsiders now to look at them and make judgement calls. Plus, if charges were filed, Ellie would have went to jail.
Then again, lately, in the public and private arenas, this thing is becoming more commonplace. I have always believed that love is something every woman should have and hold; sadly, that's an illusion. I have seen many a woman stick to a sorry man for whatever reason just to hold family together. One book I read a few years back that I had almost thrown out the window is one aptly titled "Weeping Willows Dance" where a young girl marries a man much older than her and upon the advice of her mother, stuck with him to the end, although he made her life a mockery and pure hell while together and to me, that's a disgrace. I may be wrong but it seems to me if I have to have peace to and by myself instead of hell on earth with one crazy man, I don't need it. I rather the peace by myself any day. After all, you only get one life on this earth, no do overs or reincarnations.
I have a rule I would like to put forth here for all those contemplating matrimony. Maybe I'm a bit cock eyed, but to me, this would do better than cause problems later.
If your in your 20s, go out there and have a good time; If you know your promiscuous, or have to have some strange stuff, your not marriage material; have your strange fruit.
When you realize that that life is NOT for you, or your get tired of it or you ran your course in the conquering department, make sure that you are ready to settle down and find someone who will embrace you for you, and after careful thought, prayer, and deliberation. (Yeah I added prayer, who but Jesus could help us in these situations?) move towards marriage and being with that person.
Now some may look at this and say, well, I met a nice girl or guy and I feel we can make it and I'm in my 20s; well you may be, but sometimes in those situations, there may be pressure to marry; there may be a baby coming, something. Unless you feel your 100% for the person, don't do it. save yourself the hurt you'll cause your mate and chill. If you ask me, I feel folks should wait until they are mature; but in their 30s is a good thing. My parents met and married and they were in their 30s; My cousin, now my godmother introduced them, and they wrote each other; when she came to the U.S., my father was hitting 40, but he knew my mom was the one and they married for 45 years until he died two years ago. See, you gotta want to work at your marriage, as well as be there for the person; because in time, you'll end up as roommates. no lie. I see that all the time.
Ok, I'm done. I hope a lesson is learned here and you take your time to the matrimony game. I am gone. Do comment.